STOKOE, E., 2018. How real people communicate. The Psychologist, 31, pp. 28 - 47.
As a scientist of conversation, people often ask me about many aspects of human
communication. Some questions draw upon commonly-held myths about the way we speak.
For example, if I am showing an audience how customer service works over the telephone,
people ask about ‘body language’, and the limits of the voice-only mode. They ask about the
relative status of talking versus what our bodies do to communicate. And their questions
often reveal a presupposition about the answer. Body language, it is assumed, has primacy
over words. Our words transmit one message, but our bodies leak another. Actions speak
louder than words......
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